Expanding our Efforts - and Happy

Dear Great Family and Friends,
We hope this letter finds you all well and happy!   As for us, we are that indeed.  Tonight as we came back to our apartment after a few hours out in the cold dark afternoon, we were so happy to walk into a warm house that feels quite like home now.  We are getting more adjusted to Sweden--not really knowing where things are much better--but not worried at all about it.  The week has been fairly busy for us, but not more than we could reasonably manage.  And we are staying healthy--which is such a blessing!


On Monday we went down to the immigration office ---again, this time with our own appointment to get the official extended visitor's permit.  We had all the paperwork in good order and even made the appointment on time in spite of parking problems, but unfortunately we were not able to get the permit.  It looks like it is going to be a bit more tricky than it was supposed to be, and we have heard that it is at least partly due to the huge refugee influx in the past year.   A business man in our ward said their papers have not been cleared and they are actually still here  4 months past their legal time, still waiting for the documents---with unofficial permission to stay.  The man who helped us was very kind and didn't charge us the processing fee, but said to come back just two weeks before our permit expires.  That sounds risky to us, but we can't do anything about it.   Another man from the US Embassy in our ward said the amount of refugees into Sweden is 5% of their population.  (They were the nice guys who took so many--whereas other European countries would not accept any.)  We didn't know how significant that % was until he said, if the U.S. took the same proportion, it would be like taking 15 million refugees and trying to take care of them!  So we are resolved to do as much work as we can in the short two months left---but still plan to have faith that we can stay through our full time.


With this agenda in the back of our minds, we are glad as things start to pick up with appointments and meetings.  On Tuesday, we drove up to Sundsvall Sweden and met with the District President Stegeby there.  This man was a treat to be with.  He is so cheerful and filled with faith.  We don't see the great sense of humor as much as in Ireland, but one of his early comments in answer to the weather was, "we don't have any mosquitoes"!   He has been serving in  the District Presidency for 17 years (much like Grandpa's former counselor, President Warnick) He also serves as a Counselor in the Mission Presidency for the present and last four Mission Presidents.  His District is very spread out and covers 57% of Sweden, but he is proud of the strength of the Saints there.  We had a good meeting with him, and will return as he now begins some plans to expand the Self Reliance effort in his District.   


The drive to Sundsvall was farther than most drives in Ireland so we planned to stay overnight and we were glad we did.  The roads on the map looked like we would be on major highways, but we were not on freeway style roads very much of the time.  The roads are basically 3 lanes all the way ---for both directions to share.  There is a small fence barrier between the directions most of the time, but the passing lane is off and on and very narrow.  With lots of big trucks and slushy highway grime constantly on the windshield, it made for hard driving---and much of it in the dark.  In addition, we thought we should take advantage of going in the direction of some people we wanted to look up for Dedee Dalebout, and it was further out of the way that we hoped.  We didn't have much luck it seems, but still we were glad we made the effort.   We realize this is going to be reality as we travel here, but as you see we are being careful. 


The next day we traveled back and made life a little easier by having a video meeting with some leaders in Finland that evening.  It was a good start there.  We will try to do that as much as we can, but it just doesn't have the same affect as meeting in person.   We think once we make initial visits to places it will be a pretty good option for some of the time. 


On Thursday we then took the easiest plan and flew to Oslo, Norway.  We had planned at first to drive this trip, but the advanced weather forecast was grim, and it proved to be pretty accurate.  We were glad we flew, especially as we thought of the smaller roads.  In Stockholm, they have nice freeway style roads and even many places of 3 lanes per direction, but apparently only in the densely populated areas.  There never seems to be the expected "rush hour traffic" that was so common in Ireland, all except for about 4 hours in the middle of the day, and that is surprising since we learned that Stockholm's population is about 2-1/2 million people. 


Our trip to Norway went very well.  A wonderful man, Erik Jakobsen, met us and our manager from Frankfurt at the airport and took us to the church for about 3 hours of meetings and then back to our hotel.  We left the next morning--so not many hours for all that travel; but we felt like our time to meet and discuss opportunities and ways we can help them accomplish some new goals was well worth it.  We have had some good communications since then, and Erik is even changing some major personal plans so that things can get started sooner than later.   We love the spirit of sacrifice we are seeing among the Saints here.  The Scandinavian  people seem to really want to do things right and have great faith.  It doesn't of course solve all concerns, but it certainly makes things happen.


Since we have been home, we have been trying to get our Mission assignment to help check apartments done for now,  because the calendar is starting to fill in, and we are delighted.   We are feeling very blessed to be able to go to Copenhagen, Denmark this weekend and meet with some people that Ben's sister Leisl (married with two little boys) is setting up for us, then do some returning Missionary trainings here, and then to Finland a week later. 


The great thing about meeting Leisl is that since she lived in Copenhagen for quite a while, she really knows the people we need to meet in order to understand the way of life and priorities of the Saints there.  She is wonderful to add us to her already crazy-busy schedule and it will really help us! 


Another thing that has been filling in our time somewhat is starting to teach SR Job Search skills to some of the refugees.  At this point we are just doing one on one trainings, but we hope that as the missionaries see how helpful it can be, they will be better able to set  up groups.  It is already starting to happen, so we are happy.  One man we have been able to teach 3 times now from Syria is so appreciative and He is also doing well as he learns about the gospel.  He is very concerned that he has not been able to get his family here yet, and that there is prejudice against him as he tries to get a job, but he has a great attitude of faith and is anxious to prepare to be baptized and then help others as well.  He is another one of those remarkable people who is very smart---and it seems they are the ones who can figure out how to rise to the top regardless of what trials come.  He recognizes the truth of the gospel and how it will bless his life.  He told us how when he first came, everything seemed so dark and discouraging, and now even though his problems are still there he feels the weight and darkness of his trials being lifted.  It brings us such joy to be able to help.  Tomorrow we are going a few hours away to meet a group of immigrants who want the same help. 


And then as the "cherry on top", we are happy to tell you that on Saturday we were able to go to the Temple and do a session.  We had to get up early to go--but that made it seem like old times.   It was great after 14 months of not going, to be in a session, and fun to do it with earphone translation.  We could still hear the Swedish, but the English on low volume was great support.  The group was very small--and as we said, the temple is very small.   The smallness means that we met people we have met before in meetings, and a few from our first visit there, so we didn't feel like total strangers.  And you never fell like a stranger in the Temple.  It feels like coming home--to heaven, so filled with the Spirit we try to have everyday, but of course it is complete.


Grandkids: you might be interested to know we are starting to learn Swedish through a free app called Duo-lingo.  We aren't desperate to learn it, but knowing a little will help.  It is easier to read and write than to say it, because the letters make different sounds than we are used to, but it helps to be able to read signs etc.     It would be fun if any of you want to try it with us.  We are not quick learners--like you would be--but many words have some English roots and so it isn't too hard.  If you learn it, it probably won't be something you can use much, but we can talk secrets when your parents are in the same room.    For starters, one easy word is so useful:  "Tack"  (sounds like talk)  means both please and thank you. 


And now for a riddle:  Why do we see so many real fairies in Sweden, when we tried so hard to see them in Ireland, but never did see them?   Please send your answers back.


We send extra love to each of you Grandchildren!   We know you are so busy and doing so many good things!  We are happy to hear of the great things you do with your talents.  As we teach Self Reliance, one of the things we teach is using time wisely.  When you use your time to become the best you can, you are really building who you will be in the eternities.  You wonderful Grandchildren are getting a head-start on greatness because of all the special things you do--in school, with music, with scouts, with art, with sports, with YW and YM, and with friendships !  It will bless you in this life and always.  We miss being able to attend your performances and see your successes, but we think of your so much, and pray for you always!


We wish the best to all family and friends---'Tack'  for staying in touch.
Love and Hugs,
Grandpa and Grandma,
Dad and Mom
Lynne and Lanette
Aldste and Syster Pettit

This is a painting of the old downtown of Stockholm.  We found it in a little shop, and it is done with a unique technique using egg white - making it very durable.

Another painting of the old town part of Stockholm - pretty accurate. 

Winter is Here!

Our Dear Family and Friends,
Well, winter has really arrived here in Sweden.   We want you to know that we realize it is not nearly the winter you are having in Utah and Idaho, (maybe it is lucky we are gone), but it is winter for sure.  While we are seeing that Ireland is having a mild winter again--temperature sometimes at 55 degrees---we are getting a pretty good experience of what the Irish said we would:  cold temperature, snow and ice.   In early November, Stockholm had the biggest storm since 1911, but by the time we arrived, we thought maybe the warning of winter in Sweden was not much to note. 


However, this week we have had some quite stormy weather.  We decided we really needed to wash our car one day ($18 for the cheap one!) and by afternoon we had a full-on storm.  That night the windy blizzard kept us awake much of the night.  It was probably just unsettling to not know what we would be facing---as we did have an appointment early the next morning.  We have had some low temperatures, -19 degrees (ah yes, that is only Celsius--which is just below 0 F ---but doesn't it sound a little more like what you are getting?)    And with all the snow that whirls around, we are only getting about 8 inches --but it is not melting at all yet.  The snow plows drop pebbly "sand", but salt is not considered environmentally friendly, so it is not used at all. 


The waterway is quite icy, but the ships continue to come up and down the channel.  One man told us they work to keep it open, but that he wouldn't ride a ferry or boat taxi in the winter because it is just too cold.  We will probably be finding out for ourselves how cold it is, because we are starting to plan a trip to Finland via a ferry at the end of the month.  It is much less expensive and we would have our car when we got there to do the traveling we need to do.  We have a bit to learn about how to best do this.  In good weather, it could be a great adventure, but we are not sure whether to arrange for a cabin even if the travel is all in one day. 


The fog is quite interesting to watch as it moves up from the channel onto the land, and the sound of the ship fog horn is deep and low.  You almost don't notice the sound at first, but then it makes us feel so blessed to be safe inside and not having to be traveling without the ability to see what is ahead.  It made us reflective of how the Gospel is also a way of traveling safely through life for us.  When we can't see what is ahead in our lives, we know that we have a Prophet and scriptures to help us stay away from danger and trouble.  Their repeated steady voice is a comforting guide that we are grateful for.


We have come to the realization that the countryside reminds us of upstate New York.  There are a lot of trees and rolling hills, and the roads are not nearly so busy as they were in Dublin.  One cold morning Grandpa looked out to see a young father not be able to start his car.  He went out to see if he could help, but then the Grandparents came and picked up the children, and they weren't too worried about the car since it was old.  I would be fun to be able to share the gospel with a family in our apartment building, but we are not getting the perfect opportunity yet. 


This week we have had a few meetings that gave us a bit more momentum with our work. One important meeting was with the Stockholm South Stake SR Committee.  They were a very complete committee, and are doing what they understand is Self Reliance, but they have not seen the full Initiative.  It is going to be a little harder to get them to ramp up when they feel good about what they do, than it was to get Self Reliance started in Ireland.  They were very inclusive of us though, and we feel they will be able to expand their efforts when they see the many ways that SR can bless the Saints.  These socialist countries have given the people a feeling of security with health support and a form of job security, but there is reason  to think that with the unsteady economics beginning, especially in Finland, that it cannot last. Sweden's tax rate is 71% and an increasing number of young people think that with that high of a tax rate, they may as well let the government be their full means of support.  It is interesting that, even when the government takes care of "everything," it is hard for many Swedish families to make ends meet because of all the taxes they pay.    


Another meeting was with the Mission President and his wife to see if they are interested in having us start a returning missionary training program.  They were very excited about it and want us to get it going right away.  We had thought that since we are in the Mission Home city we could just teach one big session to the "returnees" when they come in to go home, but the President felt there was just not enough time and wants to arrange 1/2 day trainings in the working areas.   We will do that for the time being and then pass the training materials on as we did when we left Ireland.


On Thursday, we met with our District downtown.  It is a good group of young missionaries and they are sincere about their work.  We took lunch for them for after the meeting, but it is not as easy or good as having it right near our house, but they still appreciated it.  Since we were out and would need to be right by the Temple for an evening meeting, we decided to go to the Temple in the in-between hours, but we got an invitation to join the Elders for a teaching appointment because the man was looking for work and they wanted us to meet him and set up to help him.   We didn't make the temple, but that is okay since it is just available for us if we don't have a lot else to do. 


It was fun to have a gospel teaching time again with an investigator. When we went into his house he first asked us if he could get us a drink of juice or water.  While he was out getting the drinks his roommate came into the room.  To the surprise of everyone, the roommate was a man they had met on a train that very week, but had not settled on a time to meet him.  So here they were, sitting in his house ready to teach his friend!   He was getting ready to go to work, so he could not join the lesson, but of course a time was set up for them to meet in the next two days.  It is just amazing how carefully orchestrated the work of the Lord is.  In all the masses of people in Stockholm, this just could not have happened by coincidence!


At church we met another investigator who is looking for work.  He is from Syria and has a lot of  experience and work skills, but doesn't have great language skills.  He has been looking for jobs as everyone says to, by checking the internet---with no success.  We met with him for an extra hour after the block and started teaching him some Job Search skills and he was thrilled.  He could readily recognize that there is significance in the method we taught him and he was so happy and grateful.   The missionaries were also there and loved it too.  They went home and shared the good news with others and already we are getting contacts from others who want help. 


It is fun to meet new missionaries and feel their love of the Gospel.  In Church we heard a great talk by one of the Elders that we think might help you older Grandchildren.  He was assigned to talk about the blessing of seminary in his life.  He admitted that he was not proud of what he had done with his seminary experience and how he wishes he had been better.  He said he went to seminary to keep his parents happy, but now he can see how much he missed by often sleeping and playing with his phone.  He is a really good missionary now, but when he finds it hard to prepare for teaching, he knows it is because he did not use his time well to gain the knowledge that would help him now and later in his life. Knowledge is one thing that no one can give us.  It is one of the parts of agency.  We have to get it for ourselves and build continuously to have the strength that becomes an armor of protection for us.  Even now on our mission we know we have to keep studying, and we encourage you as teenagers to use your time and study the scriptures and gospel everyday. 


Looking ahead, we are excited about traveling north this week to Sundsvall, Sweden to meet with the President of the District there.  His District is 57% of the geography of Sweden.  We hope to be able to find one of Dedee Dalebout's Swedish relatives on the way, depending on the weather, etc.  We also are traveling to Norway this week for a meeting there.  We decided not to drive because the 10 day forecast was not good and we don't know what to expect with the roads for our first time.  It is about an 8 hour drive, but a much shorter flight.  Still we will have to stay overnight.  In all, as we said, we are picking up momentum, and hope that we can make a difference as we learn more and share what we have learned so far.  


We groan with you Grandchildren as you have to go back to school after such a fun Christmas vacation.  We loved hearing of all the fun things you did during the holidays.  The holidays are very big with the Swedish.  They have repeated reasons to celebrate and still had one more holiday last Friday.  January 6 is called Three Kings Day and school doesn't start until after that.  We called one SR specialist this week to check on a time to meet with their stake and she said the holidays are not over until Monday Jan 9th.  Wow!  Well, we know getting back to school or work is hard whenever it happens, so keep smiling and  stay healthy!  We love each of you and hope you will write when you have a little time.


We still feel so blessed to be on this mission.  This is an interesting experience for us to "start over" in a sense, but it makes us realize even more that the Gospel is true everywhere.  As in Ireland, we are meeting some wonderful, devoted saints who are staying true to their beliefs in spite of their challenges.  We are so anxious to be the Lord's instruments in helping people be their best and lay claim to the privileges that are in store for them. 


We send much love and warm hugs!
Love Grandpa and Grandma,
Dad and Mom,
Lynne and Lanette
Aldste and Syster

The winter view out of our window.  This is our "Lego Village" with the train.  Can you see it?

Another view from our window.  The ferries continually come to and from the channels (out of sight) at the top of the picture and go up the channel to the right.

Happy New Year!

 

Dear Family and Friends,
Happy New Year to all.  We hope this finds you all feeling well and happy after a ' fantastiskt' holiday time with your families.  ( We wish we could say that we are learning a little Swedish, but so far the best we can say is that we are happy when we see a word that has enough of an English base to recognise.)

Speaking of New Year though, we think we should first share our New Year's Eve celebration here in Sweden.  We have been so blessed to be invited to such fun holiday traditions.   Our invitation came a little by default, but we were so happy for the result.  A very nice family in our ward had invited us to Christmas Day dinner after Church--but then on the day, many of their family were not  well, so they asked if we would mind coming instead to New Year's Eve.  Of course it sounded fun--even better, since Christmas Day itself is not traditionally the big celebration. 

Well New Year's Eve was the lovely home of a Stake Presidency member who is a prominent architect.   There house is and may always be a work in  progress, but it sits up high (with a great view (for fireworks) and has so many nice features.  Grandkids, you may be interested to know that this architect loves Legos and so do his young adult children.  They have more Legos than even you guys!---and are making a Lego town in a special apartment area.  It has skyscrapers, along with many other buildings that are more classic.  You would love to see it and even better, you would be great help on it!  It reminded us of the view out our windows, so now we call our view The Lego Village---which we are still fascinated with:  trucking, trains, and especially the ships.  The main recreation activity for the night (except for the fireworks) was that the big boys and the cousins were working on their Lego city before and after dinner.

The evening began with a nice dinner--and NICE it was.  After the introductory Glogg, the salad was exotic with shrimp, salmon, caviar, avocado and wonderful cheese.  Then they had a lovely patio grilled pork dinner followed much later by dessert which was quite different from home. The main feature of dessert was a big variety of crackers and CHEESE! and fruit.  Grandpa must be European because he loved it--especially since it also featured a very rich CHOCOLATE torte cake.  We brought Chocolate Chip cookies  which were a big hit--but honestly we are struggling again to get the recipes to adjust so they weren't quite right. 

With a lot of time between dinner and the fireworks we had a nice time getting a tour of their house (and plans) and a very good time to talk about Self Reliance.  It was good to learn that not everyone sees the socialist order as ideal--in fact they share the concern that even with free (better yet, paid) educational opportunities, the upcoming generation is a concern.  Many apparently see no real need to make the big effort to get an education or  plan for a significant career because the government will take care of them.   One reason this might be an issue of the generation is the love of video gaming.  It doesn't seem to matter where people live, the ' addiction' to video games is a pretty big threat to society.  It is easy to see that this is at least one of the reasons why Self Reliance needs to be taught throughout the Church.  We were able to share our understanding of how Self Reliance has many levels of application---like most principles of the Gospel do.   Both the Stake President counsellor and his brother who is a leader in another Swedish stake were very interested in how we can help them lift the level of what SR has been here---and of course we felt blessed that this was the outcome of not going there on Christmas Day.   Not only did we have a wonderful time, but we were doing as much good as if we had made special arrangements---and no one was in a hurry!

So then it came time for fireworks.  Of course we watched the TV with the countdown ---we should have practiced our Swedish counting!  Because we are in Stockholm, the capital of Sweden, they have a very nice fireworks show, which was not too far from us.  We could watch it down and across the waterway---and a variety of private displays as well.  Then, they had one of their own.  Their family consists of 7 children, and two grandchildren.  Their oldest daughter has severe Cerebral Palsy and they did so much to get her ready to go outside, along with the little grandchildren.  The one little boy was quite afraid of fireworks so he wore a helmet.  It reminded us of Samantha not liking them---too bad we didn't think of a helmet for her!   Do you remember that Samantha?

Then on Sunday, we had Sacrament Meeting and many testimonies recognised the blessing of a New Year.   One thought came out clearly in a way we had not thought much of before:  that every day is a new day to do our best and have a new start, but even better, with every Sacrament Meeting we can have that chance to look at our lives and change the things that we need to.  Repentance is such a blessing.  Today we were also reading in Alma 41 that emphasises the mercy of Heavenly Father in giving us the chance for repentance in this life.  It really is a great way to end the Christmas Season---to recognise the Gift of our Savior, and because of Him, each and every one of us has the blessing of being able to have new starts.

Well, with a new start here in Sweden, we are finding a lot of things of interest.  We have learned a few things you might be interested in.  One thing we see out our window is a huge smokestack (and there are quite a few smokestacks around.)   We wondered what it was because there doesn't seem to be any industry by it.  We learned that it is a back-up heating supply for when the weather gets extra cold.  Under the city are huge pipelines that bring the heat to big apartment buildings and make the roads thaw faster.  A few mornings we have seen fires near the stack.  Great idea!!  And we are happy for the landmark it is for us as well.  Story to follow:

We were happy this week  to discover a new place to run.  We felt sad to leave our nice running path in Ireland, but as we tried new directions and interesting ways to go, we found one day a little path through the woods and along a little lake.  It really is amazing.  It has a nice packed wide trail that has resting stops with benches, and stopping spots with exercise equipment!  Seriously.  We have been doing the one that you sit on and use your arms to lift your own weight.  Grandpa is pretty good at it, and Grandma---well she tries.   We also discovered a "camping site" that just puts a new twist on features.  The log shelter is wide but just sleeping height and leaves an open side toward the lake. Firewood, grills, and all are provided.  After awhile the trail comes to a residential area with classic homes along the lake. 

One morning we decided to extend our fitness run to go all the way around the little lake.  We knew it was possible because we saw a map at the trail head, but apparently we missed the trail that stayed close to the lake, because when we finished we were way off from the start and had no idea where to go.  We ran in the direction we thought was right but when we finally could spot the smokestack again, we were so far away and not sure what side of it we were even seeing!   It was lucky we didn't have any appointment that day because it took us a few hours to get home!  New resolve:  either just go to the village, or run the circuit from the other direction.   Needless to say we didn't run up the stairs when we got home!  

Another nice thing about Sweden is the tunnels we mentioned.  We knew they were a good method to connect the island rather than so many bridges, but we didn't realize that they also take care of traffic congestion in the busy parts of the city.  When the older narrow city roads would not be adequate, they just put a few bigger roads underground. Because of them we have not experienced any serious traffic problems--except for the day we were trying to go to the temple and the GPS kept heading us for a construction roadblock.  We tried to get away from the area so the GPS would lead us another way, but it took a long time and unfortunately/fortunately we were too late for the last temple session. 

When we finally arrived at the temple it was a nice surprise to see it---such a beautiful and small glowing place to be.  The lights were all on, but the door was locked and no one came for the doorbell for a long time.  It was a cold wait, but when the sister came, we explained why we were late, and she said not to worry, that she would help us be able to do something.  She arranged for Grandpa to be a witness for baptisms and for Grandma to do initiatory work.  Grandma had the experience of part Swedish and part English--which was fun and she was grateful for the years of initiatory mornings with her friends in Logan.  After we both finished we were then able to have a temple tour (it IS small) and go into the Celestial Room.  All of the temple design and decor are so Swedish and elegant.  We had such a unusual - and refreshing - experience in the temple that night.  It was very peaceful, and we felt like we almost had the entire place to ourselves.  It was a time for reflection and quiet worship. 

The experience of getting to the temple seemed like a life lesson in itself.  So many times when things go wrong or are more difficult than we think they should be, we don't realize that the Lord is really preparing us for something better.  If we had been able to drive directly to the temple as planned, we perhaps would have missed the wonderful peaceful experience that we had.  Doing a regular session as we had planned to do might have been good too, but at least there was something good that came after we had difficulty.  It reminded us of the phrase that one of the sisters quoted in testimony meeting Sunday:  "Today's test is tomorrow's testimony."

This is Caroline, the Karlsson's daughter, dressed up to go see the fireworks.

This is Gunnar, the Karlsson's grandson, with ear protection and helmet - all ready for the fireworks!

Not bad for "home" fireworks!

Greetings from Sweden

Dear Family and Friends,
Wow, you are saved!  Just when you thought you couldn't read anymore routine letters, we got a change of assignment with new language and culture, new mission and ward people, new house and scenery, and new effort to serve.   We hardly know where to start with all that we have experienced this week---so maybe chronologically will do.


We flew out of Dublin on Thursday morning--which now seems like a few weeks ago.  Getting ready to go was, to borrow the cliché, was a real whirlwind!  We made our last trip to visit the small, most remote branch on Monday.   We were tired by that point, having been up and down, and east and west, (and more) all within the week.  We arrived in time to have dinner with the Knight family and to have a little early evening Christmas with the children   We had another graduation "ceremony" for them and then stayed the night at their home. 


The next day we got back home in time to prepare for a YSA SR class that we do a light dinner for and then loaded up with Specialists and drove out to Bray for a nice dinner meeting.  Our manager from England wanted us to get the Dublin group leaders together to meet him and help the transition to go more smoothly--but he got tied up with travel delays and missed his ferry, so we ended up just going ahead with a nice dinner and less meeting.  That was a fun night for us and we appreciated even more the strength and testimony of the great people we had worked with.


Wednesday was a blur of pressure to finish off details but we felt lucky that the day would end with a triple baptism.   We felt like we could get everything done, but mailing the package home to prevent overweight luggage was a crazy time.  First we thought the UPS rate would be best, but got to a UPS place that didn't ship--just a business office.  Unfortunately, it was far out of the way and the hour was getting close to closing times, so we then decided to do the Post.  That meant payment had to be cash because our bank account was now closed and we had to also find an ATM.  In all the rush we thought we lost Grandma's phone!  We prayed, drove a long ways back, didn't find the phone and then when sad reality was at its best, we found it!  Things like this happen to everyone--and usually when it will be least convenient, but yes, Heaven was watching over us and the phone had fallen into the purse (didn't ring because of a dialing problem.)  Bottom line was that we had felt pressure at the start of the day, but had a sweet assurance that things would be in His hands.  Even though we panicked for awhile, we really loved that feeling of divine help.  It is always hard to re-tell a "tender mercy" very well,  but we want to share it to let you know that we love knowing that the Lord cares about the little things, especially when we are facing a lot of bigger things ahead now. 


So we were late for the Baptism, (but not as late as someone who was speaking) which meant we were basically on time and were able to get the last minute arrangements for food made, and enjoy the sweet spirit of the occasion.  One of our dear investigator friends came special to see us and say good-bye.  After the baptism, we also went out to say good-bye to our friend Nick.   It is hard to know that we may not see these people again, but we have loved watching them feel the Spirit and hope they will be able to act on those personal blessings. 


After a very late night of finishing the packing, cleaning, washing etc. we did make our early flight without any problems.   Fortunately, we were given a little over-allowance on the luggage weight because we had so much to bring.  Flying out we felt a real sentimental love for Ireland as we looked out the plane window at the green patches of farmland laced together with the quaint brown hedges.  We flew first to London, then had about a 3 hours flight to Sweden.  All the fuss about getting a visa for Sweden was funny because we had the shortest entrance ever coming into the country.  


After we picked up our luggage and left the secure area we didn't know who to expect would meet us, but we certainly didn't dream that it would be such a big welcome!  It was not just one nice set of missionaries--but three, with one of them being the Mission President and his wife.  They "always meet their missionaries" and we were not exempt even though we are just transfers.  We all stood behind a big Swedish flag and had our picture taken.    After a bit of introductions and welcomes, the President left and we were then swooped off by the two couples to go to dinner.  It was a fun afternoon, evening topped off with them bringing us all the way out to our new apartment. 


We live now on an island (Stockholm is a series of 14 islands) called Lidinga--which sounds more like Lydia.  It is an especially nice area and has a gorgeous view.  We live on a hill on the 6th (top) floor and overlook what seems like a Christmas village.  The view is of a beautiful bay that has frequent big ferries running.  A little commuter train winds its way along the snowy valley and the hillsides have a lot of evergreen trees on them.   Since we are so far up, we can leave our blinds and drapes open and watch everything. 


The senior couples that brought us to our apartment were responsible for acquiring and preparing it and did such a fabulous job.  We have been spoiled now!  Not only is the bath nice, with enough water pressure and enough hot water, it has heated floors and a heated  towel warmer rack.  It is a brand new remodel for the bathroom and also has enough light.  The house is much larger than our Irish house and nicer.  It has a separate office off the kitchen, a dining area,  and a big sitting room.  Throughout  the whole house they furnished it with brand new IKEA furniture and furnishings.   They painted the old cupboards and have it looking so fun.  We have new living room furniture,  drapes, rugs, clocks,  dishes, pans, towels, bed and bedding.  They even gave it the special touch of cute décor---and a Christmas tree.   It is so clean and nice we feel like we are almost in a model IKEA  home.  


We slept so well that first night and it hasn't taken us long to get unpacked and settled.   We really have most things we need, but did run into a little glitch with plugs.  We have a set of plug adaptors but didn't think about them not working to convert Ireland system to Sweden system, rather than USA to Europe.   With not enough time to go looking to buy an adaptor, Grandma was resourceful and used the vacuum vent for a hair dryer.


On Friday we were taken back to the mission office and got our car and some help to get set to be independent.   We had changed our GPS  Garmin to Scandinavia, so we are comfortable getting around.  With so many islands, we are often in underwater tunnels when we drive, but they are nice and well lit.   We ventured off to a nice big mall and grocery store and tried to find things we recognized for food.  The prices are quite a bit higher here for food since the majority of Sweden is rock.   The idea that everyone speaks English is nice, but canned and boxed foods don't speak at all, and the labels are in Swedish.  We didn't do so well the first time because the store was so crowded and we felt like we were in the way, but our second time to shop was much easier and we even were stopped by a lady who saw our tags and introduced herself as the Bishop's wife!   She helped us find a few things and of course was so kind.  (Tender mercy again.)


Friday night  (Grandma's birthday and the Mission President's wife's birthday ) we joined all the Mission couples for a Christmas dinner night out, and Saturday morning we all got together again at the Mission Home for a short meeting about doing apartment checks for young missionaries and the President gave us some time to present a little about what we are doing.  There are about 1/2 as many couples here as the Scotland/Ireland Mission, so we may not get as much help with SR but it was fun to meet them.


 After the meeting we all went downtown to the Christmas market booths for a few hours.  It is a funny coincidence that when we came to the Scotland-Ireland Mission we did the very same thing in Scotland on our second day.  It was held in the square of the oldest part of downtown Stockholm, so we saw some really great old architecture, narrow cobble walking streets and lots of quaint shops.  After some very cold shopping time, we all went for authentic Swedish meatballs in a very old restaurant.   That made 3 days and 3 nice meals out in a row!   So fun.


Sunday, we found our way to the Church which met at 2:00 p.m.,  because surprisingly, there are two wards to the building.  The people were very nice, but the idea that there would be headphones was not quite right.  We will need to set that up for ourselves, so we just smiled, tried to stay awake and sang in Swedish.  They even asked Grandma to lead the singing in RS which was quite different.  She didn't know whether to sing English, nothing, or get her face in the Psalmer.  In all, the people were as nice as possible and we made it through our first Sunday.


Next week we will send you a funny words list, so Grandkids get your brains ready to think--or learn Swedish this week with us.  We can see a lot of hidden similarities to English when it is written out, but spoken, the language is hard for us.  In Ireland the language was tricky, but the written Native Irish language was always subtitled in English.  Here are no subtitles, just very long words with no hidden clues. 


Coming up this week we are going to help with kitchen work for a funeral, serve at a homeless shelter and have a real SR meeting with some leaders--so we hope we can get in the swing of serving again.  We know that serving will make us happier than anything else.


We have had some great experiences this week, all of which have served to strengthen our testimonies even more.  We have seen firsthand, once again, the Gospel in action in very diverse situations, but always with the same rock-solid foundation of doctrine and faith in Jesus Christ.  It really doesn't matter the language - English, Swedish, Portuguese, Spanish - the feeling is the same when the Holy Ghost bears witness of the truth.  We heard a young lady speak in church today, and even though we didn't understand a single word, we could feel the strength of her testimony.  The same glow attends worthy Saints and Missionaries wherever they are.  Despite difficulties, the same desire to be better and serve God prevails.  It is an amazing thing.  It is a marvelous experience to see prophecy fulfilled as the Kingdom spreads to all parts of the world.  We are just so grateful to be a small part of a very big dispensation in which the primary goal is to prepare the Church to meet the Savior.  He loves His saints, and will provide for them, and is anxious for their happiness, even in very distressing times. 


We send our love and prayers your way.  We would very much like to be with you, but are grateful to be on this mission.  We wish you the happiest of Christmases and a wonderful holiday season. 


Much love,
Grandma and Grandpa
Mom and Dad
Lynne and Lanette
Elder and Sister Pettit
Eldste and Syster Pettit   

What a great welcome to Sweden!  From the left:  Elder and Sister Clouse (office couple), President and Sister Beckstrand of the Sweden Stockholm Mission, us, Elder and Sister Anderson (housing couple)

Old Town Christmas Market, central Stockholm.  We enjoy the different colored buildings.

 

Changing of the Guard, Royal Palace, Stockholm

This is the view from our apartment.  The ferry is coming in from points east (Helsinki, Russia, Germany?)

No hair dryer with the proper plug means you have to use the vacuum exhaust to get the job done,

Now there's a sandwich!  Traditional Swedish food served at a funeral.

Dad and Elder Anderson hanging a coat rack in the newly-refurbished apartment.

Christmas Eve at the home of Victoria and Anders Carlssen.  Anders is reciting the Nativity Story to the children (in Swedish, of course).  On the table is the traditional Glogg, that is served warm before the meal.  What a beautiful setting in a beautifully-decorated house!

 

Carlssen family on Christmas Eve.  Notice, again, the Nativity and the Glogg.

Carlssen family again.

The table is set for Christmas Eve dinner.  How beautiful!  Notice the windows and the view.

In the kitchen, where the food is being prepared on the stove on the left, and put on the bar to the right.  All kinds of yummy meats, fish, dressings, bread, cheese, etc., etc.

Look at all that food!

Another ferry coming up the inlet in front of our apartment.

 

Wrapping Up Ireland

Dear Family and Friends:


     This week's letter might be a little shorter because things are getting crazy around here as our move approaches on Thursday.  We feel rushed to get everyone visited that we would like to, as well as wrap up some last-minute Self-Reliance details.  We really don't mind the rush, though, as we have had so many wonderful experiences this week with our friends here.
     After the Monday trip to Galway to visit with our friends the Currans (the branch Self Reliance specialists), we held our last English class.  So many students have already gone home for Christmas, so we only had 3 in attendance, but we had a relaxed, fun time with them.  We realized how fun this English class has been over the months, and hope that it will be a means of bring some of the wonderful young people we have met into the Church.
      Tuesday morning found us in District Meeting, and it was such a wonderful thing to watch these young Elders and Sisters show their love and concern for their investigators.  The meeting was centered around finding ways to move investigators toward baptism, so each set of missionaries listed their current investigators on the board and the group discussed ways that we might help each of them.  It was very touching to see how the missionaries really cared about each investigator and how much they wanted them to enjoy the blessings of the Gospel.  To see such charity from these missionaries truly affected us.  The meeting ended with one of the sister missionaries suggesting that we all fast together the next day for these people.  We feel very strongly about the power of united fasting and prayer, and we are confident that many of those we discussed will be baptized.  The mission is well on its way to reaching its goal of 360 baptisms this year, which is a miracle in itself.  We are grateful for the opportunity to be a small part of what is happening.
      Tuesday evening was our YSA Job Search class (no institute tonight.)  The class started off on shaky ground with very few people, but they started coming in late, and we had a very nice group about halfway into the class time.  What is most important, however, is that they started to catch the vision of how they can work together as a group and how the material can really bless their lives.  Sarah is the newly-returned missionary who is facilitating the class, and she made the extra effort to come in spite of being in the middle of moving.  Her sacrifice is a real example to the others, and we feel very good about leaving the class in her hands.  If this class could work, we feel that it would be a great blessing to the YSA.  After class, Sarah had a meeting with the Stake Presidency and was called as the Stake YSA Leader.  She will do an absolutely wonderful job, and we are excited about it, especially because of her feelings about Self Reliance. 
     Wednesday morning we got up early and drove to Nick's (Romanian perpetual investigator!) so we could put some birthday decorations (and cake) in his apartment while he was at work.  The landlady let us in, and we had fun doing something so that he wouldn't feel forgotten on his birthday.  When he got home from work he was so surprised and called us right away.  He was so appreciative, and told us over and over again how much it meant to him.  We asked him again how soon he felt he could be baptized, and he replies that he wasn't ready yet.
      In the afternoon we drove to Limerick, with a visit along the way to the house of the former Self Reliance Specialist, with whom we worked when we first got to Ireland.  His house is way out in the country over some narrow roads, but we really wanted to see the new addition he just put on his house.  He was so proud of it and so excited to have us see it that we were glad we went out of our way.  They seemed to really appreciate our visit and fed us lunch.  We feel like it was meaningful to them that we would be interested enough in their project to take the time to come see it, and express our appreciation for what they did to help us as we were first getting started.
     From there we drove that last 45 minutes to the Limerick chapel to hold a Career Night for the Young Men/Young Women.  We were surprised at how many came (14), and we feel like the presentation went well.  It was the first time we have given this presentation that was developed by our boss specifically for the Youth.  It consisted of a fun career-choice activity and some instruction, and they seemed interested.  If we have a chance to give it again in Sweden, we will refine it and hopefully it will be meaningful for the youth, who have to make school/career choices so early here in Europe.  Because it was so late when we got through, and we were so tired, we just stayed at a hotel in Limerick and drove home in the morning, which is something we haven't done very often.
     Thursday evening we were able to join the Sister Missionaries in teaching Valerie, who is a golden investigator from Mexico.  She asks the most searching questions, and really wants to know about the Gospel, but she is reluctant to get baptized for a very interesting reason:  she is worried that having to go to church on Sunday will take away from the time she can spend with her extended family.  She is very close to her family (especially her grandmother) and Sunday is the only day she can spend with them.  How would you help her through that problem?  We would be interested in your answers. 
     Thursday night was a YSA Family Home Evening with treats and games on the Wii.  Not overly well-attended, but it was nice to be with them one last time.
     Friday morning we were up early to clean the church.  The cleaning closet was in such bad shape that we bought some new supplies and really gave it a good cleaning.  We felt like we contributed at least a little to making the building look better.  There is lots more we could do, but not enough time.
     Friday night we invited our good friends the Keoghs and the Coles over for dinner, and we had such a fun night eating, talking, and playing games.  Mom taught them "9's", Fruit Basket, and Speed Scrabble.  It was interesting to be involved in a political discussion after we introduced the concept of a "Trump" card!  Oh boy!  We exchanged gifts and hugs.  We are going to miss these wonderful people!
     Saturday morning found us on the road to Portadown in Northern Ireland where we put up a display for SR for a ward anniversary open house.  We were very happy to have it shared there and there seemed to be good interest.  This is one area that is just getting ready to start SR--but we have trained the senior couple there and they are excited to bring it to the saints in that area.  We had some meetings with the leaders and in all it felt like a success.
       As quickly as we could, we got on the road back to the Dublin Stake to attend a ward Christmas party where Grandpa was able to be Santa's helper.  It was so fun to see how excited the Children were to see Santa.  Grandpa did a few minutes of sharing the important symbolism of Santa as a reminder of the Savior and it made it all even more special.  We really love Santa--and he does bring us closer to the real meaning of Christmas if we think about it.  We hope you will al think about it.
       Our last Sunday in Ireland was spent in another small branch on the West coast of Ireland where we were able to do a graduation presentation for those who had just finished a course.  We have spent  a lot of time with this group, so again we were blessed with special feelings for them.  We also spoke in Church---with the Mission President since we were all (surprise) there at the same time.  
         After we got back to Dublin, we visited our friend Nick who was having some serious back pain.  We were able to bring the missionaries with us and gave him a blessing--which we feel was a tender mercy path for him to connect with them before we go.   And later we were lucky to have our good friends Carlos and Priscila (Carlos the first baptism we had in Ireland) come and visit us.  We had hoped to be with them when they go through the temple in February, but we were just grateful for them and the way they have grown so much in the gospel since Carlos was baptized.   Looking back on these people as blessings in or lives is sweet--but makes it  harder to leave them. 
         Now we roll around to Monday again---today.  We are making our last trip out of Dublin to visit one last small branch family and their group who has also just finished their course.  We will do another graduation evening and then spend the night at their home.  (They insist and we don't have the heart to decline.)   In all, we will feel like w have completed some circles, not just around the island, but with the completion of groups that had a hard time getting started, but have finished with victory and blessings. 
           We reflect so often on the many  times on the many ways the Lord blesses us.  Things don't always turn out perfectly---not everyone gets baptized and not every ward or branch has magnificent success, but we are seeing the Lord's work prosper and bless many lives--including our own.  We really hope you can feel our love for the Lord, for the people of Ireland, and for you our dear family and friends!   Love is what matters, and like a beautiful gift that was given us says, "The heart that loves is always young"----we know that in truth, it is the key to Eternal Life! 
           Finally speaking of Eternal Love, we want to recognize the Anniversary of Great Grandpa and Grandma Godfrey--Their 70th!!!!   It is another event we wish we could attend, but we joyfully celebrate with them in our hearts.   They have been a wonderful example of teamwork and love.  They have shared their unity with all the family and continue to be an inspiration to us.  We honor them for all they are--together.
          We leave for Sweden in 3 days.---much to do until then!  
           We hope your days are full of Christmastime joys.  Hugs to ALL!!
Grandpa and Grandma,
Dad and Mom
Elder and Sister Pettit
Lynne and Lanette

In front of our "flat" on the morning we left for Sweden.  A lot of memories here!

The Sisters took us to the airport in Dublin to send us off. 

Ireland is green, even in December!

We have lots of memories of the "Emerald Isle"

 

 

So Many Blessings!

Our Dear Family and Friends,

First of all, we want to write to the Grandchildren.  We have had a bit of fun this week that we think you will be interested in.  While we were out for our morning jog, we noticed a few things that were a little peculiar.  At first they didn't seem like anything, but then we took a second look, and we think we are seeing signs of leprechauns!   The weather is starting to change just a little and we wonder if maybe we saw a little flurry in the grass just before we spot things.  We aren't too sure, but for example, we will post on our blog the pair of little gloves left on the sidewalk.  We think the cooler morning air made the leprechaun put on his gloves to start gathering his magic morning dew gems, but as the sun came up (a little later now than during the summer)  he took his gloves off and maybe forgot them.  Or maybe he just took them off for a few minutes and then we came running by, ---and he had to leave them there and hide nearby.  Anyway we will keep you posted if we see something else.  Let us know what you think.

Now for the mission news.  Sometimes when we get to writing our letter for the week we wonder what we can tell you that will be different for you.  After these nine months of our mission, we realize that a lot of what we do is much the same, we travel to the corners of Ireland, we usually speak or teach a group, we are amazed at the goodness and faith of those we associate with, and we see little miracles happen.   As a change up, we enjoy that we can interact with investigators, mostly immigrants who are truly outstanding people trying to understand the message of the gospel.  

The names and situations are always changing, and the miracles are always a surprise.  The love we feel for the people seems to get stronger and we feel more blessed every day.  Yet we struggle to know how we can help you to feel these experiences enough to show our gratitude for all that is happening here.  We hope you do not get bored with our stories and will be able to feel the Spirit as you read our letters .  So we begin:

Stake Self Reliance Committee meeting just seems to get better every time we meet.  At first we felt like we were having to try and convince people of the value of implementing SR in the various wards.  The goals were pretty low, but they were goals, so we were happy for support in a positive direction.  Some of the leaders tried to talk the talk, but they just didn't have experience.  Since a few of the classes have now finished, the experiences that are shared have made the quality of the meetings dramatically different.  Especially those who have been participants in the groups relate such depth of appreciation for what they have been a part of, and it changes the whole perspective and purpose for the meeting.   It is wonderful that we are not the only ones who are so impressed with the power of the initiative, and we feel our own testimonies growing even more. 

Other things we have done this week are training Elders to go home soon.  We love being able to see the strength of these young men who have given so much energy and commitment to serving the Lord.  This is a great time in their lives, and although they represent different countries and different backgrounds, they have in common the joy and rewards of their hard work to take home as a treasure.   Whether they go home to the States, Mexico, Great Britain, or wherever, their faith is strong and it is great to be able to give them some counsel to continue to depend on the Lord as they pursue their life careers.   We always give them treats and a meal, but we love feeling their gratitude for blessings more meaningful than the food. 

September really is fulfilling the expectations we have hoped for regarding the starting of new classes.  We had two areas get groups started this week and both were pretty exciting.  One group was 5 ladies wanting to do "Starting and Growing Your Own Business". (with a few more who plan to attend next week)  They seemed so determined and excited, with a sweet desire to support each other---and most of all depend on the Lord to lead their efforts.  The other group was another small branch in Northern Ireland.  We didn't have any idea how many would come the distance back to Church on the Sunday evening, but lo!  there were about 14 in attendance and quite a few who wanted to be in more than one class.  The Stake Specialist was so happy he was ready to call it done to have a group form, but in the end there were 3 different classes started!  They can hardly wait to get going.  It is a long ways away but we think we should try to get there again next week to see if it is for real.  It really made the long drive worth it. 

And a few weeks ago, we mentioned how changing our plans and getting to the little Sligo branch was such a blessing.  Well, there must be some strong ties to heaven's guidance because we ended up there again this week after a change of plans, and it was so great that it happened.  The only way we "saved the day" (class) was that we asked one of the class members to share their financial success story of getting out of debt with the class.  She is such a soft-spoken Philippine woman, but she had such a great success with their effort, that it was more than inspiring, it was fun to hear.   We think it will really add vision to the effort of the group. 

We have mentioned our good friend Nick from Romania before, who is an investigator.  He is working in Ireland to earn better money than he can in his country, but he really misses his little daughter and wants to bring her here.  He needs to work hard to get enough money saved up to make it possible.  Lately his boss has not been paying him, and at the same time telling him he wanted to give him a raise.  We have been very worried about this and told Nick to be careful to not let it go on.  He felt he could trust his boss but after a 3 weeks of not paying him, he started making up excuses why he wouldn't be able to.  This was just not honest and it was so sad to see Nick loose faith in his boss who had been a friend to him.  This week he has gone back home to Romania and we seem to feel he may decide to use his skills and return soon to his homeland.  We really care about him and hope he can continue in his progress in the Gospel.  Smoking is still a problem for him, but we have had such good talks with him about the Restoration, the Priesthood, and the Book of Mormon.  He wants to be baptized and we  hope he can reach that goal.

Another good friend, who joined the Church (from South Africa) called to tell us that his wife who had been lukewarm about the Church had gone home to visit family and called to tell him she was thinking when she came back next week, she would like to start learning more about the Church.  We have spent a lot of time with her and were so happy to hear that good news.  He is already a strong leader in the ward and was just called to teach Elders Quorum although he has only been a member about 6 weeks. 

Also this week, we were happy to see our friend from Iraq who has suffered so much grief from losing his father and uncles in car bombs, come back to Church.  He first attended the last session of the Job Search Class and then came to Church on Sunday.  His questions in class were so sincere and so deep and he really seemed to enjoy the association again.  We hope he can stay involved again. 

And finally we think our YSA lad (who needs to get a job) may actually make the goal.  He needs to complete a few more detail hoops and it looks like he may be there.  It is a big step for him to set aside his video game habit and be ambitious, but we think he will.  Next we want to get him to start dating.  ( that will be a hard one too).

Now last, but absolutely not least, we are blessed with our sister and brother-in-law Marilyn and Steve Leininger visiting us here in Ireland.  They flew in on Sunday and will tag along with us as we do our travel and work, for at least a while this week, so it will be a fun time.  We appreciate their friendship and family bond---and hope they can enjoy the trip.

Well, that's enough for this week.  Once again, we have had the privilege of seeing the Lord's hand in this work.  It is such a blessing to us to be able to watch the many miracles the Lord is performing in this missionary work.   This is the Lord's church, and He is moving the Work forward at an increasing pace.  Our prayers and thoughts are always with you!

Love,
Grandma and Grandpa
Lynne and Lanette
Mom and Dad
Elder and Sister Pettit

Swans can be aggressive when they are hungry!

Leprechaun shoes!

Leprechaun gold!

Leprechaun socks!

A Leprechaun bowtie!

One Year in Ireland

Dear Family and Friends,

 

     Well, the months are rolling along, and November has turned into December.  On the 13^th of this month, we will have been in Ireland for a full year.  Looking back, it doesn’t seem nearly as long as it did looking at it from the front end, but that is typical.  We certainly have experienced a lot of things over the past year, and we feel like we have been on the run almost every day, which has made time go by really fast. 

     The Christmas season is in full swing here, as we imagine it is at home.  Since this year we know where the stores are we are seeing the decorations and shopping rush a little more.  The traffic is significant and everyone blames it on Christmas shopping.  We have visited in a few homes and it is fun to see their decorations, which are quite like home. 

      But the seasons don’t change much.  The days get noticeably shorter (sunup is usually around 8:00 am, and it starts getting dark shortly after 4:00 pm) but the temperature only varies between the high 30’s and the mid-40’s, with “misty” rain.  This fall has been unusually dry, with not nearly as many hefty rainstorms, but there is always a little moisture in the air, and it seems very cold.  Everyone on the street now is wearing a stocking cap and a heavy coat, and most of the time several layers.  Even though we don’t get the extreme temperature changes that Utah gets, it still seems cold.  Even the Leprechauns are dressing warmer!  The calendar says it is December, so we miss the snow that we know you are getting.  The most boring job in the world would be the Irish National Ski Team Coach.  There aren’t many mountains around here, let alone hills, and certainly not snow.  Oh well, no country is perfect.  We’re taking care of our craving for snow, however, by moving north about 700 miles.  We understand that the winter days in Sweden are even shorter than Ireland.  We would like to arrange our flight to Stockholm so that we land in the daylight, but we don’t know which hour of the day that would be.

     Speaking of being busy, this week has been another “on the go” week.  We suddenly have so much to do to wrap things up so we can leave, and so little time to do it in.  After a Monday at home to catch up on office work  and few lessons with the young missionaries, we were off Tuesday morning to Limerick (2 hours) to train two elders who are going home next week, and to attend part of the Limerick Zone Conference.  We are getting a little more polished on our presentation for the exiting Elders, and it such a blessing to see how much these wonderful young people have matured in their understanding of the Gospel and their approach to life.  They are literally “head and shoulders” above most young people their age in their preparation for what is ahead.  Our purpose in the training is to encourage them not to lose the momentum they have gained as a missionary, and to not forget to do the things that made them successful in the mission field.  We teach them a little about how to effectively present the skills they have gained as a missionary, goal setting, the importance of education, choosing the proper career, and managing time and money.  They usually are reluctant to stop thinking about missionary work long enough to think a little about going home, but they are bright, strong, and willing to learn.  It is a real pleasure to work with them.  We tell them that they need to always work together with their spouse in financial planning and goal setting, and that the first step to doing that is to get a spouse.  That usually gets their attention.

     We got back from Limerick in time to do the last minute meal preparation for the Job Search class which we facilitate on Tuesday nights.  It is a class for just the YSA, and we hope it gains a little momentum as the word gets around.  They of course like grandma’s cooking, but this time they really seemed to get a feel for what this class could actually do to help them in their job search.  We hold the gospel Foundations part of the lesson for an hour, break to attend Institute, and then finish

Coleman, Emma, and baby Curran - SR Specialist in Galway, Ireland. 

 

Youth group in Limerick Branch.  This was our first SR presentation to a youth group with the "Bobilator" exercise.

 

"Graduation" from Finance Class, Tralee, Ireland.  Dom and Ashley Anne Knight, Margaret and Jack

 

Tralee graduation again.  With them are the Walkers, Senior Couple in Tralee.

 

We had fun giving them the certificates and candy leis.

 

 

They are a happy group!

 

Valarie is from Mexico.  She is such a wonderful person, and we pray that she will one day join the Church.

 

 

up for another hour after that.  It makes for a little late night, but the class members seem to be willing to do it.

     Wednesday we attended the Dublin Zone Conference, held right here in our chapel, so no driving this day.  Grandma helped prepare lunch for the missionaries, and we got to be a part of the whole Zone Conference.  It was so fun.  We recite our “Missionary Purpose” and sing the mission song right along with the Elders and Sisters, and it really makes us feel a part of things.  President Donaldson is such a great mission president, and he has been able to get the missionaries to accomplish things they didn’t know they could.  We think we told you before that they have already had twice as many baptisms this year as last, and they are well on their way to make 360 for the year!

     After the conference was over, we had dinner at a restaurant with the mission president and his wife, and the mission presidency counselor and his wife.  What a wonderful privilege!  It was just a relaxed social evening with them, and each time we are with them we grow to love them even more.  They are deeply spiritual, highly effective leaders, and we have learned a great deal from them.  We are going to miss them so much.   They are working so hard and making such a difference here.  They are on the road constantly with Zone Conferences and interviews, and they just learned that they need to interview the missionaries even more frequently than they now are.  Being a mission president is a very hard job.  They looked so tired during the dinner, and they still had to drive to Belfast that night for a Zone Conference the next day.

     As for us, we waited until early the next morning to drive to Belfast for the same Zone Conference, since we had three Elders and one Sister to train before they left the mission field.  We conducted our usual training, and had just as much fun as we usually do, even though we messed up on the timing somehow and missed lunch.  (Fortunately the group we were training made the meal.) However, we did get to go in and listen to the testimonies of the departing missionaries and the final instructions from President Donaldson, as well as hear a special presentation given to the Belfast Stake President, who was being released in two days.  Once again, we realized how much we are going to miss this mission.  After the meetings, we rushed back to Dublin in time to teach a lesson with the sister missionaries.

     Friday was taken up with all sorts of odds and ends, and we spent the evening with Nick, our perpetual investigator.  By the end of our visit, we thought we had him convinced to attend church on Sunday and meet with the bishop to determine what had to be done to be prepared for baptism before we left.  We really had high hopes, but then we were disappointed again when Sunday came around and he wasn’t feeling well enough to go to church.  It has been very hard for us to want him to come into the Church so badly, and to see challenge after challenge come along to prevent that.  We are so worried that if he goes back to Romania without being baptized, he never will be.  It is causing us a lot of concern, and we are not sure what to do.  We have tried very hard, but there still might be something more we should do.  We’re just not sure what it is.   

           On Saturday morning we drove to a little branch about an hour away to assist the young Elders to start their new class.  This is the experimental group and we thought we should help out with as much time as we have.  The great news is they would have been fine without us.  These two young Elders were so good to follow the prescribed format, ----and other than the lunch we brought that gave the class a little more time to enjoy being together, we really weren’t very useful.   We wish every class that starts would have the faith of these two Elders. 

          Later on Saturday we met with a great young woman investigator from Brazil that we are going to miss.  It was nice to have a chance to see her for a while and enjoy lunch together because she has been so busy with all her jobs lately.  (She is a product of the Job Search class.) She is very accomplished in Brazil and now is willing to do any work she can while she improves her English.   She doesn’t feel very connected with family at home and really dislikes the corruption there, so she wants to stay in Ireland.  We hope someday she will join the Church and be able to have even more blessings.

          And finally on Saturday night we went to a farewell party that was not for us, but they treated us as special as if it were.  The party was hosted by the stake president counselor who is moving to England for a new job.  They had a nice catered Chinese buffet which was lovely, but the friends were the real treat.  We had such a nice time visiting and feeling the blessing of knowing such great people.  We wonder if the people of Sweden can ever be so inclusive as these friends have been.  One tender conversation was with the new stake president counselor whose 6-year-old daughter is having brain surgery in a few weeks to remove tumors that are caused by Tuberous Sclerosis.  Of course, that hit us very close to home.  He was interested in some of the medications that Lydia is taking, and we are going to correspond with him.  He and his wife are showing wonderful faith in the face of this trial, and our heart goes out to them. 

     Sunday morning found us back on the road to Belfast to attend their Stake Conference in which a new stake presidency was called.  We really enjoyed the meeting (it brought back some memories), and were especially touched by the remarks of Elder Sabin, a member of the Seventy who was the visiting authority.  He seemed so caring and understanding, and really wanted the members of the stake to feel the Savior’s love for them.  He said something that was really funny, as well.  He said that he was sure that outgoing stake president had slept like a baby the night before.  He was also sure that the newly-called stake president had slept like a baby too:  up every 30 minutes and crying!   We sat with our good friends the Bowens, who worked in Self Reliance when we first got here.  They are such good people, and we will try to keep in touch with them in the future.  They are the ones who introduced us to something new for our bucket list: skiing in Austria.  They have done it a couple of times, and told us that it was absolutely wonderful and not all that expensive.  All right, all right - we can dream, can’t we?

     After the meeting, we spent some time in emotional farewells with the mission president and counselor and their wives.  We will probably not see them again before we go to Sweden, and it was hard to say goodbye.  We had gifts for them and the Bowens, and it was good to see them all again one last time.  We also very much enjoyed visiting with some of the people we have met and worked with in the Belfast Stake.  The Self Reliance initiative seems to be in good hands there now, and we pray that it will really take hold.

      We got back from Belfast in time to have dinner at the house of some members in Clondalkin, the Coles, who we have worked with in their ward on SR and other things.  She is Relief Society President and he is in the Bishopric, and we have come to really admire them.  It was so fun to spend some time with them.  They have been very good to us here.

      After dinner, we attended a musical fireside put on by the YSA.  The number in attendance wasn’t great, but there was a great spirit in the meeting, and we stayed after to visit for quite a long time.  We continue to pray for these young people because they face so many challenges as members of the Church in Ireland.  They have wonderful testimonies though, and work hard to keep the standards.  It’s just hard to get a “critical mass” of young people here, and so many leave for places where there are more members of the Church.  They want so badly to marry someone who is strong in the church, and there just aren’t that many here.  Distances, the cost of transportation, and so many other things make it hard for them to do all that they would like to do, but they are trying, and the Lord will bless them.

             It’s now Monday again, and today we drove to Galway (2 hours) to spend time with the branch Self Reliance Specialist and his wife.  They need some encouragement, and it seemed to mean a lot to them that we would make the trip just to have lunch with them.  It is so hard for them in such a small branch where the numbers are few and people are not so strong.  We are actually quite concerned about them, and pray for the Lord’s help in supporting them.  We would really like to come back to Ireland to visit these branches and help “prop up” things, but we’re not sure if we can.  Job security - that’s it - we will never run out of things to do.

     Enough for this week.  Let’s end with a testimony of this Work.  Surely there is no more wonderful work than to be part of building the Lord’s Kingdom, whether in Utah or Ireland.  The miracles just keep coming, and that should be no surprise, since the Lord is so involved in this work and He will make sure that it succeeds.  We have been thinking lately how important it is for us - all of us - to do what we can, small or large, to prepare the Church for the Second Coming.  That is what we are all doing: preparing for the coming of the Savior.  This is no ordinary task!  What a blessing for us to be living in this important Dispensation, when the Lord’s hand is so clearly visible in the “grand millennial mission” (President Hinckley) of the Church.

      Thank you so much for your love, support, and examples to us.  We continue to pray for you so much, and hope you are having a marvelous Christmas season!

 

Love,

 

Grandma and Grandpa

Mom and Dad

Lynne and Lanette

Elder and Sister Pettit